Therapy for LGBTQIA+ executives and high-profile people whose partner just gave someone else that look
“I think I was gaslit into thinking that, well, this is what polyamory and queer relationships are like”
You may be questioning whether your hurt is justified because of your relationship structure. Therapy to process infidelity, rebuild self-trust, and find your way forward.
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, trauma- informed care
Does this feel familiar?
You noticed that look between your partner and someone else, and now you can't stop replaying it. You knew something felt off, even before you had proof.
You wonder whether you're allowed to feel betrayed, or whether you've been led to believe that this is just what queer relationships or polyamory are supposed to look like.
You keep crossing paths with your ex in the spaces that used to feel like yours, and you're not sure how to move through a community where your lives are still so intertwined.
You second-guess decisions you used to feel confident making. You wonder whether you can trust your own judgment, even though you've always trusted yourself before.
You grieve the future you thought you were building together, even as you're trying to figure out what comes next.
And even years later, the people you love may still be grieving the relationship you lost, making it hard to feel like you've fully moved forward.
Deciding whether to stay or leave after infidelity is hard enough. But when you're queer, navigating nonmonogamy, or living a public-facing life, the decision can involve so much more than whether you still love your partner. You're also navigating questions about trust, relationship agreements, shared community, and how to honor your own needs when other people may have opinions about what your relationship should look like.
Infidelity in a queer or polyamorous relationship hits different
Imagine 6 months from now…
You can trust your own instincts again, without second-guessing every feeling or wondering whether your hurt is justified.
You have space to explore whether rebuilding trust and intimacy with your partner is possible, and what healing would actually require from both of you.
You no longer have to explain why infidelity can hurt in a queer or poly relationship to someone who doesn't understand your relationship structure.
You have support from someone who understands the nuances of queer relationships, nonmonogamy, and the grief of losing the future you thought you were building.
You can navigate your shared community, the questions of accountability, and the future ahead without losing sight of yourself in the process.
You begin to believe that trusting someone again doesn't have to mean going through all of this all over again.
Explore the Blog: Infidelity in LGBTQIA+ and Polyamorous Relationships
Hi, I’m Danielle Robbins (she/her),
I believe that betrayal can leave you questioning not only your relationship, but your ability to trust yourself. As a queer therapist, I care deeply about making sure LGBTQIA+ people have space to name what happened without having their pain minimized or their relationships misunderstood.
I help queer and nonmonogamous people navigate infidelity, rebuild self-trust, and figure out what comes next, whether that means repairing a relationship or finding a way forward without it.
My practice is intentionally focused on depth over volume. We meet weekly to make space for the complexity of what you're carrying, work through the hurt, and help you reconnect with what you want and need.
Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC), New York
Specialized training in Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP)
Training in EMDR and Psychedelic Assisted Therapy
How it works
Ready to get started?
Step 1: Book Your Complimentary Betrayal Breakthrough Call.
In this initial call, we'll talk about what you're navigating, what kind of support you're looking for, and whether working together feels like the right fit.
Step 2: Weekly Therapy Sessions.
We'll make sense of what happened, work through the hurt, and help you reconnect with your instincts, needs, and boundaries. You'll have space to explore whether you want to rebuild your relationship or begin imagining a future beyond it.
Step 3: Find Your Way Forward.
Greater clarity, a stronger sense of self-trust, and the freedom to make decisions about your relationships and your future that feel right for you.